One of the patterns emerging in recent sexual harassment cases brought to light by the #MeToo movement is the failure of human resources (HR) departments in many organizations to respond to sexual harassment complaints from employees. In fact, we’ve heard example after example of HR enabling retaliation against accusers, protecting powerful men who are accused, or simply dismissing complaints with only cursory investigations or none at all. Noam Scheiber and Julie Creswell of the New York Times explain that although employees are told to report mistreatment to HR, HR is often not the right place to go. The authors explain that there are various inherent conflicts in HR’s role:
- HR is charged with protecting the company from liability and therefore faces a conflict of interest when also expected to protect employees. In other words, HR’s main client is the company and the senior leaders.
- Scheiber and Creswell note that “even if human resources officials conclude that the accused should be disciplined or fired, they typically have no independent authority to make it happen.”
- HR personnel are subject to the same power dynamics as other employees if they recommend termination of a valuable employee and incur the wrath of a senior executive—their own job could be at risk.
- Offer bystander training to give everyone the skills to stop disrespectful behavior by coworkers.
- Involve white men in delivering bystander training so discouraging sexual harassment is seen as important to white men as it is to women and minorities.
- Promote more women. Miller notes that companies with more women in management have fewer sexual harassment incidents.
- Pay and promote men and women equally.
- Create gender-balanced teams, hiring panels, and performance review panels.
- Give dozens of people in the organization responsibility for receiving complaints so people can talk to someone they feel comfortable with and are not limited to HR, where they may not feel safe.
- Institute proportional consequences for harassers. Consequences should reflect the severity of the offense. Automatic firing is not the solution. Nip small offenses in the bud.
- Use an all-purpose statement such as “Stop harassing women. I don’t like it—no one likes it. Show some respect.”
- Name the behavior, and don’t smile when you say it.
- Use an interruption tactic, such as a time-out gesture, to cut off the behavior.
- Force the person to explain him- or herself. Langelan suggests asking questions such as “Why do you think it’s okay to ask me to give you a massage?”
- Organize consistent group action against a persistent harasser. Agree on what you will all say to him or her, and repeat that statement whenever the bad behavior occurs.
- Document the incident on the spot with your phone’s camera or a written record.
- Use short, direct statements to give the harasser feedback on why his or her behavior is inappropriate and what behavior would be better.
- Use basic self defense if you are physically attacked. Take an aikido class if you can.
- If you are a bystander, speak up.
- Recruit unexpected allies, including the bully’s buddies.